From Emotional Chaos to Calm Mastery—Discover the Complete Guide for Living with Purpose, Presence, and Peace in Every Moment
You've read the books. You've tried meditation. You might even quote spiritual teachers.
And yet...
You still find yourself reacting rather than responding when tensions rise.
You still struggle to maintain presence when difficult emotions surface.
You still hear yourself saying things you later regret, even as you think, "This isn't who I want to be."
The problem isn't a lack of knowledge—it's the gap between understanding enlightenment as a concept and actually living it in your everyday life.
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I know this gap all too well...
For years, I struggled with emotional volatility that affected every area of my life. My relationships were filled with stress and conflict. As a parent, I found myself repeating patterns I'd promised I'd never continue—yelling when boundaries were pushed, laying down rigid rules, and reacting from a place of frustration rather than wisdom.
Professionally, I was always keeping my head just above water. Despite moments of success, I couldn't maintain momentum—always falling back into the same limiting patterns.
The turning points came painfully: a failed business, a second divorce, and the humbling realisation that as an apprentice trainer, my students were sometimes earning more than I was.
Each crisis was a signal that something needed to change, but I didn't know how or where to start. I tried everything: asserting more control, walking away from problems, arguing my position harder, trying new "techniques"—none of it created lasting change.
It wasn't until I began teaching apprentices and helping them navigate both personal and professional challenges that the framework began to emerge. I recognised patterns in what worked versus what didn't. When COVID hit and I was made redundant, I took that opportunity to refine these insights into what would become the 5 Phases framework, eventually publishing my books "There's a Reason for That" and "BE" among others.
The transformation was remarkable. I became calmer. I listened more—both to myself and to others. My relationships with my children, which had been strained, began to heal. Life started feeling easier, with less stress and more flow.
Today, I've not only transformed my own life but found a partner who shares this level of self-awareness. The obstacles that once held me back no longer have power over me. Even with challenges like ADHD that made focus difficult, I've discovered how to move past procrastination into productive action. The 5 Phases Program is proof!
This framework has become the missing manual for practical enlightenment—not just for me, but for countless others who have used it to transform their lives as parents, partners, professionals, and individuals.
Unlike abstract spiritual teachings that tell you what enlightenment looks like but not how to get there, the 5 Phases framework provides a concrete, step-by-step approach to developing complete awareness and effectiveness across all dimensions of your life.This isn't about escaping reality—it's about mastering it. The 5 Phases framework bridges the gap between spiritual wisdom and everyday application, giving you practical tools to:
Transform emotional reactivity into calm
responsiveness
Understand the root causes behind recurring patterns
Create flow and harmony in every area of your life
Develop a sustainable practice of self-awareness
Become the person, parent, partner, and peer you've always wanted to be
Obviously, I cant tell you everything. However, I can tell you what's covered in each phase.
Phase 1 - The Flag at the Peak
BE-ing before DO-ing
Most people set goals based on what they want to ACHIEVE, but never consider who they need to BE to make that goal happen.
This phase helps you define who you want to BE before focusing on what you want to DO. Your current identity is wired for the results you're already getting, which is why willpower alone rarely creates lasting change.
In this phase, you'll discover:
How to define your "flag at the peak" identity that naturally achieves your goals
The specific BE-ing states that create flow in different life areas
How to align your daily actions with your desired identity
Techniques to reconnect with your authentic self when you feel lost or reactive
Phase 2 - Affected or Afflicted?
Do you have a choice?
Almost every situation in life AFFECTS us—but not every situation has to AFFLICT us.
This phase helps you recognize the difference between being affected by life's challenges and feeling afflicted by them. When you feel afflicted, you perceive yourself as having no choice, which creates victim mentality and reactive behavior.
In this phase, you'll discover:
How to recognize when you're slipping into "afflicted" mode
Techniques to remain "affected but not afflicted" even in triggering situations
The critical moment of choice that exists in every challenging scenario
How to reclaim your power to choose your response in any circumstance
Phase 3 - Change the BE
Understanding the ROOT of Emotions
Negative thoughts and emotions aren't random—they are symptoms of your BE-ing state.
This phase helps you identify which of the four BE Elements (Safety, Gain/Loss, Clarity/Confusion, Self/Ego) is driving your reactions, and address the root cause rather than just managing symptoms.
In this phase, you'll discover:
How to pinpoint which BE Element is activated in any challenging situation
Specific techniques to address each element at its source
The patterns that connect seemingly different triggers across life areas
How to transform your relationship with emotions rather than suppressing them
Phase 4 - The Experience Loop
Why we repeat patterns and how to interrupt them for good.
Even when we know better, we often repeat the same unhelpful patterns over and over.
This phase helps you map and interrupt your recurring emotional and behavioural loops at any point in the cycle, creating freedom from habitual reactions.
In this phase, you'll discover:
The 5 stages of the Experience Loop and how they create recurring patterns
Multiple intervention points for breaking unhelpful cycles
How to create new, beneficial loops that build positive momentum (without affirmations)
Techniques for maintaining awareness when old patterns try to reassert themselves
Phase 5 - RAMP-IT
Turning Awareness Into Action
Awareness without action creates insight but not transformation.
This phase helps you implement sustainable change through a comprehensive framework for action that addresses all aspects of implementation.
In this phase, you'll discover:
The complete RAMP-IT implementation system
How to create environments that support your desired changes
Techniques for maintaining momentum when motivation fluctuates
Methods for transforming temporary changes into permanent traits
Most programs either focus on theory without application or offer quick fixes that don't address root causes. The 5 Phases framework is different because it:
• Addresses the root causes of emotional patterns rather than just managing symptoms
• Provides a complete system that works across all life areas (not just meditation or mindfulness)
• Creates lasting transformation through identity-level change, not just behavioral modifications
• Offers practical tools that can be implemented immediately in real-life situations
• Builds on itself with each phase strengthening the next for sustainable growth
• Allows you to level up using the same framework as you grow and challenge yourself.
You're exhausted after a long day, and your child ignores your fifth request to clean up their toys. Instead of erupting in frustration or giving in to avoid conflict, you:
Recognise which BE Element is driving your reaction (Phase 1)
Create a momentary pause between stimulus and response (Phase 2)
Remember who you want to be as a parent (Phase 1)
Interrupt your usual pattern before it begins (Phase 4)
Respond with calm authority that teaches rather than punishes (Phase 5)
The result? A teaching moment instead of a power struggle, a child who learns responsibility rather than fear, and a parent who feels aligned with their values instead of guilty and drained.
When your partner brings up a sensitive topic that usually leads to an argument, instead of defending or withdrawing, you:
Connect with your authentic self rather than ego-driven reactions (Phase 3)
Recognize that you're affected by the topic but don't need to be afflicted by it (Phase 2)
Embody the partner you want to be, not the reactive person you've been (Phase 1)
Break the familiar loop of defensiveness-criticism-withdrawal (Phase 4)
Create the conditions for authentic connection through intentional communication (Phase 5)
The result? Conversations that deepen intimacy rather than create distance, problems that get solved rather than recycled, and a relationship that grows stronger through challenges rather than being eroded by them.
Instead of feeling pulled in a dozen directions and never quite fulfilled in any of them, you:
Clarify who you truly want to be, independent of external expectations (Phase 1)
Recognize your power to choose rather than feeling like a victim of circumstances (Phase 2)
Understand which BE Elements are creating confusion about your path (Phase 3)
Break free from cycles of starting-and-stopping that have limited your growth (Phase 4)
Create aligned action that builds momentum toward your authentic purpose (Phase 5)
The result? A clear sense of direction, the confidence to pursue what truly matters to you, and the satisfaction of living according to your values rather than others' expectations.
When facing competing demands, tight deadlines, and workplace tensions, instead of burning out or checking out, you:
Stay connected to your professional identity and core values (Phase 1)
Maintain perspective on challenges without feeling consumed by them (Phase 2)
Identify which BE Elements are being activated by work pressures (Phase 3)
Interrupt patterns of procrastination, overwork, or conflict (Phase 4)
Create sustainable boundaries and practices that support peak performance (Phase 5)
The result? Increased productivity without the burnout, better working relationships, and the ability to bring your best self to both work and home without one depleting the other.
Buying courses that address one aspect of a situation but don't transfer to others
Learning how to deal with individual situations instead of understanding yourself
Most programs clearly state they don't know how to process emotions (and think no-one does!!)
Learn coping mechanisms instead of pattern breaking frameworks.
Address the after effects of emotions
Need additional help on what to do next.
Have a higher sense of self-mastery
Ability to coach yourself easier in more situations
Address the root cause of emotions and reactions.
Know how to define who you want to be and actually how to be that person.
Be less reactive
Be calmer in more situations
Learn who to BE so the do-ing gets easier
Universally applicable to all life areas and even unforeseen situations.
Includes (phase 5) how to implement the new you.
The #1 Self-Mastery, Self-Coaching and Practical Enlightenment Guide Available in 2025.
"Best purchase ever!"
"Finally, a system that actually makes sense and brings it all together. I have 100 self-help books, and the 5 phases bring them all together under one simple-to-understand roof. AND I can use it at home, work and with my employees."- Mark S., Dad, Husband, Business owner.
The 5 Phases Introductory Guide PDF:
A comprehensive introduction to the 5 Phases with all 5 Phases explained.
BONUS 1: The Situational Worksheet
- Having a moment and need some guidance? Use this sheet for rapid reflection and solution finding.
BONUS 2: The Identity Worksheet
- A Comprehensive worksheet to create the you that you want to be every day.
BONUS 3 : The BE Elements for EMOTIONAL PROCESSING:
Understand the root causes of all emotions, helpful and reactionary, so you can understand the why behind every reaction.
BONUS 4 : Overcoming Emotions Guide - A breakdown of the most common emotions and how the BE Elements affect them differently.
BONUS 5: The 5 Phases CheatSheet
A quick reference guide to the 5 Phases Framework
NEW BONUS 6: The 5 Phases Audio
Coming soon... listen to the 5 Phases Introductory PDF in your car or while walking.
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The impact of the 5 Phases framework extends far beyond my own transformation. I've witnessed remarkable changes in people from all walks of life who only got the Introductory Guide as part of the pre-release group:
People who now evaluate situations thoughtfully instead of rushing to judgment
Complete transformations in how they interact with others in work and personal settings
Individuals who've overcome hurdles from their past that had limited them for decades
Chronically emotional people who now remain calm in situations that would have triggered them in the past
"As a father of three, I was constantly stressed and would snap at my kids over minor issues. Despite knowing better, I couldn't seem to break the cycle. Through the 5 Phases framework, I discovered that my Safety element was being triggered whenever I felt my authority was questioned. By working through each phase, I've transformed my parenting approach. Now, instead of yelling, I can pause, remember who I want to be as a father, and respond thoughtfully. My kids are more cooperative, and our home is finally the peaceful place I always wanted it to be." - John C, Entrepreneur
""I was drowning in responsibilities—work, kids, home—and felt like I was failing at everything. I'd lost any sense of who I was beyond my roles. The 5 Phases framework helped me recognise how my Gain/Loss element was creating a scarcity mindset about time and energy. Through the phases, I rediscovered my authentic self and created boundaries that honored my needs alongside my responsibilities. For the first time in years, I have clarity about my purpose and the energy to pursue it."" - Sarah M, Marketing Consultant
"Our marriage was on the brink. Every conversation turned into a fight, with me getting defensive and Lisa withdrawing. We were stuck in a loop we couldn't break. The 5 Phases showed us how our Experience Loops were feeding into each other, with my Self/Ego element and Lisa's Safety element creating a destructive cycle. Learning to interrupt these patterns and create new response options completely transformed our relationship. We now have tools to navigate disagreements without them becoming battles, and our connection is stronger than ever."
- James Wilson, Dad, CFO, Husband
"I was a mess for years, thinking things would just work out, until they didn't, and I lost everything. I wasn't taught how to be self aware, break habits or understand my emotions, as most of us aren't, so it took me years to get back on my feet. Now I understand the 5 phases I know what's stopping me, why I react, how to set myself up for success and where to start. It's easy when you know how, and it's a lot easier than you realise." - Nolan Collins, Author of BE, creator of the 5 Phases
That's how confident we are that you'll love your transformation from struggling to solutions
When you order the Introductory guide you'll get instant access to your dashboard. Watch the introductory video then download the 23-page PDF and be surprised at how thorough, yet simple, the 5 phases is. Both to understand and immediately start using.
Then dive into the bonuses, including the Identity Worksheet, the Emotions Guide and even download the 5 Phases Introduction as audio files.
You might be asking yourself: "Who's behind this system?"
Nolan Collins - Author of "BE", "There's A Reason For That", RAMP your Relationship, "RAMP your Parenting" with more books on the way. Former Massage therapist, trainer, educator and apprenticeship trainer. I also like Ballroom dancing, traveling and spending a sunny afternoon on my motorbike!
The truth is... I used to really struggle with emotions, growth, relationships and even parenting at times.
I tried everything to fix my reactive behaviour because all I ever wanted was to be a good husband and dad.
But it wasn't until I discovered the RAMPIT framework thats in the 5 phases, that led to really understanding how to process emotions, stop being triggered, release my past and dig deeper to formulate the 5 Phases Porgram.
Since then, I’ve been able to:
Attract exactly who I want in my life and have found the most incredible partner.
Repair the relationship with my children that went sideways during COVID (And due to unaware parenting!)
Write and Publish 4 books despite having ADHD and struggling with procrastination my whole life
Completed this Introductory guide, a mini-course and an advanced course to implement all this.
Learn how to be at peace 98% of the time and find calm really quickly the other 2%!
Now I want to help you achieve the same!
We’re currently doing a special deal as we launch the 5 Phases program worldwide, but it’s ending soon so get the Introductory guide now before prices go up from $47 to $97 (or more!).
The goal of the 5 Phases framework isn't just to help you manage life's challenges better—it's to help you achieve practical enlightenment in your everyday experience.But what exactly is practical enlightenment?It's not some lofty, unattainable state reserved for gurus on mountaintops. It's not about escaping from life's realities or transcending your humanity.
Practical enlightenment means:
Understanding the source of friction when it arises in any life area
Having concrete tools to address challenges in the moment
Maintaining awareness of your emotional patterns without being controlled by them
Operating with sufficient competence across all life dimensions
Being free from compensatory patterns that create hidden imbalances
In essence, it's the ability to navigate life's complexities with awareness, choice, and skill rather than being driven by unconscious patterns and limitations.This doesn't mean you'll never face challenges or experience difficult emotions. It means you'll have the tools to understand them, work with them, and respond to them with wisdom rather than reactivity.
Practical enlightenment shows up as:
Calm presence when others are reactive
Clear decisions even amid ambiguity
Authentic connection in relationships
Purposeful action aligned with values
Quick recovery from inevitable setbacks
Consistent growth across all life areas
The 5 Phases framework provides the practical roadmap to this state—bridging the gap between knowing what enlightenment looks like and actually living it in your everyday life.
Emotional Regulation:
You recognize your triggers before they take over, allowing you to respond thoughtfully rather than react impulsively
Mental Clarity:
Decision-making becomes easier as you cut through confusion and connect with your authentic values
Self-Trust:
You develop confidence in your ability to handle whatever comes your way, reducing anxiety about the future
Inner Peace:
The constant mental chatter and self-criticism diminishes, replaced by a sense of calm presence
Deeper Connection:
As you become more present and authentic, your relationships naturally deepen
Effective Communication:
You express your needs clearly while remaining open to others' perspectives
Reduced Conflict:
Arguments transform into productive conversations that strengthen rather than strain relationships
Genuine Empathy:
You understand others' reactions through the BE Elements lens, fostering compassion without taking things personally
Increased Focus:
You identify and address the root causes of procrastination and distraction
Better Leadership:
You inspire others through authentic presence rather than pressure or control
Strategic Decision-Making:
You navigate complex situations with clarity and purpose
Work-Life Integration:
You bring your best self to both professional and personal contexts without depleting your energy
Resilience:
You bounce back quickly from setbacks, learning and growing from each experience
Flexibility:
You adapt to changing circumstances without losing your center
Boundary Setting:
You maintain healthy limits without guilt or over-explanation
Pattern Breaking:
You recognize and interrupt unhelpful cycles before they gain momentum
The 5 Phases framework doesn't just change what you do—it transforms who you are. And when you change who you are, everything else changes in response.
If you're feeling hesitant about investing in the 5 Phases framework, it's completely natural.
Let's explore what might be happening through the lens of the BE Elements themselves:
Safety Element Hesitations:
What you might be feeling: "What if this doesn't work for me? I've been disappointed before."
The truth: This hesitation comes from the Safety element being activated by past experiences where your hopes were raised and then unfulfilled. It's your mind trying to protect you from potential disappointment.
How the 5 Phases addresses this: The framework actually teaches you to recognize when your Safety element is driving decisions, helping you distinguish between genuine caution and unnecessary fear. By understanding this pattern, you gain the power to make choices based on possibility rather than protection. The 5 Phases doesn't promise magical results—it provides concrete tools that work when applied consistently.
Gain/Loss Element Hesitations:
What you might be feeling: "Is this worth the investment? What if I don't get enough value?"
The truth: This hesitation comes from the Gain/Loss element focusing on potential loss rather than potential gain. It's natural to weigh investments carefully, but this element can sometimes overemphasize short-term costs while undervaluing long-term benefits.
How the 5 Phases addresses this: The framework includes specific tools for recognizing and rebalancing your perception of gain and loss. Participants consistently report that their investment returns hundred-fold benefits across all life areas—improved relationships, enhanced career performance, better parenting, and increased personal fulfillment. The question becomes not "Can I afford this?" but "Can I afford to continue without these tools?"
Clarity Element Hesitations:
What you might be feeling: "I'm not sure if this is right for me. There are so many options out there."
The truth: This hesitation comes from the Clarity element being overwhelmed by options and information. When we lack clarity, decision-making becomes difficult, often leading to no decision at all.
How the 5 Phases addresses this: The framework directly targets confusion by providing a clear, structured approach to understanding yourself and your patterns. Rather than adding to information overload, it helps you filter and organize your experiences into a coherent framework. Participants frequently report that one of the biggest benefits is the clarity they gain—not just about this program, but about all aspects of their lives, AND all the work they've done in personal growth before.
Self/Ego Element Hesitations:
What you might be feeling: "I should be able to figure this out on my own. I can find much of this for free online, probably. Maybe I just need to try harder."
The truth: This hesitation comes from the Self/Ego element and the belief that needing help somehow diminishes your capability or worth. It's the voice that says you should already have this figured out.
How the 5 Phases addresses this: The framework helps you distinguish between authentic self-reliance and ego-driven resistance to support. It teaches that true strength comes from leveraging all available resources to grow, not from struggling alone. Participants discover that investing in structured guidance actually accelerates their development and leads to greater autonomy and self-mastery in the long run.
The fact that you can recognize these hesitations is already a sign that you're ready for this work. Transformation begins with awareness, and you've already demonstrated that by considering this opportunity thoughtfully.
No! While mindfulness is valuable, it's only one tool in a much larger toolkit. The 5 Phases framework goes beyond awareness to provide concrete steps for transformation across all aspects of life.
Most mindfulness programs help you observe your thoughts and emotions, which is important but incomplete. The 5 Phases framework shows you exactly what to do with that awareness—how to trace reactions to their source, interrupt unhelpful patterns, and create new ways of being that align with your authentic self.
It's the "how-to" manual that most spiritual approaches are missing.
The 5 Phases framework addresses the root causes of emotional patterns rather than just managing symptoms. Many participants who found other approaches incomplete have experienced breakthrough results with this comprehensive system.
The difference is in the integration of identity-level change (Phase 1), choice awareness (Phase 2), root cause analysis (Phase 3), pattern interruption (Phase 4), and comprehensive implementation (Phase 5). Most approaches focus on only one or two of these aspects, leaving critical gaps in the transformation process.
If you've been frustrated by temporary improvements that don't last, the 5 Phases provides the missing elements needed for sustainable change. (IF you read it - for many people just the basic understanding can be ground breaking)
Therapy and counselling are valuable for processing past trauma and addressing specific mental health concerns, and they can be excellent complements to the 5 Phases framework.
Where the 5 Phases differs is in its forward-focused, skills-based approach. Rather than primarily exploring why you are the way you are, it helps you define who you want to be and provides practical tools to become that person.
Many people find that the 5 Phases accelerates their progress in therapy by giving them concrete tools to implement insights gained in therapeutic settings.
The 5 Phases Framework is a powerful complement to your existing coaching, not a replacement. It provides a universal operating system for emotional regulation that works alongside any coaching approach. While your coach offers personalized guidance and accountability, this framework gives you a comprehensive method to understand your emotional triggers, break unproductive patterns, and enhance self-awareness. Many coaches are actually integrating these techniques because they provide clear intervention points for personal transformation. Think of it as a tool that can help you get even more value from your current coaching relationship by deepening your understanding of your own behavioral patterns.
Not at all. While the framework can accommodate spiritual perspectives, it's fundamentally practical and applicable regardless of your beliefs. The focus is on concrete skills and real-world applications, not abstract spiritual concepts.
The term "practical enlightenment" refers to a state of awareness and skill in navigating life's complexities—something valuable to everyone, whether you're spiritually inclined or not.
The framework is based on observable patterns in human behavior and psychology, explained in straightforward language without restrictive or over complicated terminology.
The framework is designed with busy lives in mind. The core practices can be integrated into your existing routine without requiring significant additional time.
You'll start with small, high-leverage changes that create immediate benefits, motivating further exploration. As you progress, you'll actually find yourself saving time as you spend less energy on unproductive emotional reactions and ineffective behavioural patterns.
Many participants report feeling less overwhelmed within the first few weeks as they learn to differentiate between what truly matters and what doesn't require their emotional energy.
The 5 Phases framework has helped people with a wide range of specific challenges, including attention difficulties, anxiety, and relationship conflicts.
For ADHD, the framework provides structure for managing attention and decreasing procrastination by addressing the underlying BE Elements that drive distraction and delay.
For anxiety, it offers tools to understand the root causes (often in the Safety or Clarity elements) and interrupt anxiety cycles before they escalate.
For relationship conflicts, it helps identify and transform the patterns that create recurring issues, while developing skills for authentic communication and connection.
While the framework isn't a substitute for medical treatment when needed, it provides complementary tools that enhance overall functioning and well-being.
Many participants report noticing changes in their awareness and reactions within the first week of implementing the framework. These initial shifts create momentum for deeper transformation.
Significant changes in recurring patterns typically emerge within 3-4 weeks of consistent practice, as you become more skilled at interrupting old cycles and implementing new responses.
By 90 days, most people experience substantial transformation in their most challenging areas, with many reporting that friends and family notice the difference in their presence and responses.
Remember that transformation is a process, not an event. You'll continue to deepen your mastery of these principles over time, with each new level of awareness creating new possibilities for growth.
The book is written in a clear, step-by-step format with practical examples for every stage of the 5 Phases. But if you need help, I recommend joining the 5 Phases community (there's an offer for it on the next page for people who want help, have questions and would like access to all my courses and training for a low monthly fee.)
We don't offer refunds because this program is designed for committed individuals who are ready to apply the framework consistently. The 5 Phases works when you work it—it's that simple.
Instead of a refund policy, we focus on providing exceptional value and comprehensive support to ensure your success. This commitment-based approach actually enhances results, as participants enter with the mindset necessary for transformation.
Our experience shows that those who fully engage with the material consistently experience positive changes. The framework has been tested and refined with individuals around the world, and we're confident in its effectiveness when applied.
You get immediate access to the complete 5 Phases Introductory Guide in a membership area where you will always have access to the latest version and occasionally new updates and additional resources (such as the Audio version coming soon)
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